The Social Man – HOW2TXTHER

I’m going to show you the exact text messages, and the system I’ve developed, over nine years of sending thousands of texts to hundreds of girls.  And no matter what you’re struggling with right now, I’ve got the answer to it!

Seriously – there’s not a single, solitary situation that I haven’t encountered at least ten to fifteen times.  If you’re stuck with a girl you’re texting, there’s a 100% chance that I can tell you exactly what you need to write, to recover it…

…and even better, to turn it around, make her laugh, and build her attraction for you.

And beyond that?  I became such a text messaging ninja that I can teach you how to do things like…

There’s simply no one who knows this stuff better, and can teach it better than I do.

The dating and pickup gurus  you’ve heard about?  They come to me when there’s a girl whose number they worked hard for, and they need to get the texts right.

I’ve won numerous Awards for my programs (more on that in a bit)

I’ve been featured on countless media outlets for my men’s coaching programs.

But none of that matters if you can’t use my text messaging system to get the girl (or girls) you want.

So let’s talk about what that’s going to take.

Let’s talk straight.

If she gave you her number, then she’s giving it out to other guys too.

And now she’s sitting pretty.  She can wait for the texts and calls to roll in, consider them all, and take as much time as she wants to respond.

She’s in control.

The hotter the girl is, the more exponentially difficult it’s gonna be to compete.  Let me explain.

A girl who is so-so might give her number out to 3 or 4 guys.  Frankly, not that many guys are asking for it.

A girl who is solidly above average might give her number out to 8 to 10 guys.

And the girl who every guy wants?  There are about 17 to 24 guys who are actively texting her today – or on any given day, for that matter.

When I first realized this, I got PISSED.  I fumed that life wasn’t fair. I would send messages that were way too challenging – and when I wouldn’t hear back from the girls, I told myself that it was because they were “just being bitchy hot girls” who liked shooting down guys like me.

But before you share in my anger, ask yourself – wouldn’t you do the same if you were a girl?

It’s no problem for her to filter through the texts she gets, ignoring the ones that don’t tickle her fancy, while she chooses two or three guys who she wants to fight over her.

Of course, you don’t know the guys you’re competing with.  You’ve never even met them.

But every time her phone buzzes, she’s carefully evaluating each message, stacking the guys up against each other, and wondering which of these race horses is going to be her champion.

She just wants a cool guy to spend time with. She’s gonna pick the one who makes it the easiest and the most fun.

Is that going to be you? Because this is a game where it’s winner-take-all.

Regarding his basketball career, Michael Jordan wrote that “I’m not out there sweating for three hours every day just to find out what it feels like to sweat.”

And I know for damn sure that you didn’t get her number just because you wanted another number in your phone book.

No – you got it because you were into her and you want to see her again.  We’re guys here – we can be honest with each other.

And I’ve got to be honest with you – I didn’t just pop out of my mother’s womb as a text messaging samurai.  But my training was about as rigorous as it gets.

For the last nine years, New York City has been my home base. If you follow my company, The Social Man, then you know I’m infamous for my adventures with women. I’ve dated cover models, brazilian actresses, playboy bunnies… the works.

My work has been featured on CNN, Psychology Today, Men’s Health and a bunch of other media outlets. I’ve been in “the game” since before the best selling book “The Game” came out, and nothing makes me happier than helping a frustrated guy get the girl (or girls) of his dreams.

But don’t think for a second that I always knew what I was doing.  I’ve probably screwed up more text messages with more women than most guys will even talk to in their lifetimes.Being in this as long as I have… I’ve seen first had as texting went from a “cool fad” to a the most important key to getting a girl.

To quote Michael Jordan once again, “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. “

The simple fact of the matter is that I sent text after text to woman after woman, and kept track of which ones worked.  I wasn’t afraid to screw up, fail or look bad, because a.) new women are constantly cycling into Vegas and b.) I was traveling for at least a third of each year.

When I started getting good enough to get numbers and text girls,  I’d get a positive response about 2 in 10 times.  And as I started to see the patterns behind what worked and what didn’t, over the course of five years and thousands of texts, I developed not only a massive library of  100%-success rate texts to send…

…but then a style of writing messages that girls loved…

…and then a system for going from text to date in record time…

…and then the superpowers that got girls – LOTS of them – to chase ME!

I didn’t realize how good I’d become until my buddies started handing me their phones whenever they needed some “professional help,” as one of them called it.

But it soon dawned on me that I had become better than anyone I knew at text messaging.  I never had to ask my friends what to say.  I never even thought about my texts for more than a second or two.

And all of the frustration of years past…

• all of those nights I’d stayed up thinking about clever things to write so that I didn’t mess it up…
• all those days that I didn’t hear back from her, and wondered if I should send another text…
• all the times I would send a text and then be so anxious to hear back from her that I’d get agitated when an incoming message was from someone else…

…those were all things of the past. And as surely as the sun will shine tomorrow, they will problems of the past for you too.

And not only that, but when you use the techniques in the system I’ve developed, you’ll come to know the same overwhelmingly powerful feeling of having…

It’s one thing to get a date.

But it’s another thing to get a date with a girl who is so excited to see you that she is literally counting down the minutes.

Flaking became a thing of the past a lonnnnnnng time ago for me, and it will soon be an inconsequential little memory for you, too.  That’s a given.

Because not only will I arm you with the texts you need to get her on the date, but when you employ some of the advance psychological principals I’m going to teach you, you’re going to OWN the game.

I’m talking about principals that will teach you…

Within just three or four text messages, she’ll be so engaged that you’ll instantly be the most interesting guy in her phone book.

And a few texts later, don’t be surprised when she writes back to say “ur so different than other guys… lol… in a good way ”

At that point, you better be ready with an unlimited text plan… because she’s going to want to talk to you a LOT more.

Oh – and I’m expecting that you probably have more than one girl’s number in your phone book.  So let me just state one more time – plan to upgrade to an unlimited text plan if you’re not on one right now.

My texting secrets are just that powerful…

Once you’ve got her eating out of the palm of your hand (and if your cell phone is in your palm, I mean that in the most literal sense!), getting her out on a date is gonna be a no-brainer.

Think of it this way – the first few texts you’ll send will warm her up.  And once it’s time to ask her out, it’s going to be as smooth as melted butter!

No resistance – no struggle – NEVER AGAIN.